When you’re stupborn, you’re stupid and stubborn. I know because that’s what I am. At least that’s what I surmise. The lab tests are inconclusive, but a decade of firsthand observation cannot be ignored.
After more than ten years of writing, revising, reading, work-shopping, conference-going, networking, critique-grouping, class-taking, submitting and querying, I am still without a book contract. A smarter, less bull-headed person would have given up by now.
And why not? No one is forcing me into this pursuit. It’s self-inflicted without question. Yet, here I am peering into the shiny, giddy-go-lucky face of a new year and I am trudging ahead. I am not buoyed by hope or spurred by optimism. In fact, I feel quite hopeless. But my chronic stupbornness will not permit me to retreat or resign.
How about you?
Are you stupborn too?
You are? Oh, bless your heart. You need a cookie and a nap. But first, I’ve culled these quotes to encourage you:
There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me. ~ Jane Austen
I promise I shall never give up, and that I’ll die yelling and laughing, and that until then I’ll rush around this world I insist is holy and pull at everyone’s lapel and make them confess to me and to all. ~ Jack Kerouac
It gives me great pleasure indeed to see the stubbornness of an incorrigible nonconformist warmly acclaimed. ~ Albert Einstein
Happy New Year, my dear, sweet, stupid, stubborn friends. (And yes, yes, certainly, warm wishes to my smart friends too.)
Let’s show 2015 what we’re made of!
I think the year of “Unbroken” book/movie, the spirit of Louis Zamperini, should be our masthead for 2015. Talk about a stupborn will to live and succeed! Let’s all succeed this year!
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Good idea, Randy! Wishing you a 2015 that will amaze you!
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Thanks for the encouraging post. Here’s to perseverance and indomitable spirit!
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Here’s to 2015, Sock Sister!
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You go girl! 2015 is your year; I can feel it! (It took me 9 years so you’re not that far off.)
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Thank you for your kind words, Lauri. Wishing you a frogtastic 2015!
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Raising my glass to you my stubborn comrade! We are, in fact, “Kindred Spirits of Stubborness!” I’m beginning year 14! Woo Hoo! My track record includes one lost agent, one fallen-through book deal and enough champaign rejections to wallpaper my bathroom! So here’s to beatiful stubborn stupidity! May it serve us well (or at least a little bit better) in 2015:) And congratulations Kris Remenar! You are my hero!
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Cheers to you, Patti! May your stubbornness pay off in 2015!
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Cheers to being stupborn! Took me 13 years to make the sale. We need to take a page (not literally) from Andrea Beaty’s ROSIE REVERE, ENGINEER: the only true failure comes if you quit.
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Thank you, Kris. I am in good company. 🙂
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